A Christian Perspective of Prevention Strategies for STDs and Unplanned Pregnancies for Teens and Women

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With more than 13 million Americans infected with sexually transmitted diseases each year in the United States, and many unplanned pregnancies, effective strategies for preventing these serious and life threatening diseases and unplanned pregnancies in teens and women are necessary. The use of latex condoms when engaging in sexual intercourse, whether vaginal, anal, or oral, is said to reduce a person’s risk of getting an STD infection and to reduce risk of unplanned pregnancy. But how effective is this strategy and are there other strategies for Christian teens and women that are more effective? Though latex condoms are somewhat effective when used consistently and correctly, how many people actually use them incorrectly and don’t use them every time they have sex? There are many reasons condom effectiveness in preventing STDs and pregnancy may be compromised. For instance, condom breakage, using natural skin (lambskin) rather than latex or polyurethane condoms, using an oil based rather than water based type of lubricant (oil-based lubricants, such as petroleum jelly, cold cream, hand lotion, or baby oil, can weaken the condom). Also not using the condom for the whole sex act and for every sex act (some people put them on just before ejaculating or only when there’s a risk of pregnancy) can lead to STDs and pregnancy. Other problems compromise the usability of the condom such as high heat in the glove compartment of a car, tearing the condom when opening the package, using condoms after their expiration date, and many other things. With all these “real life” limitations of not using a condom “properly,” condoms are actually only about 80-85% effective in reducing the risk of an STD infection, and only if used consistently every time. That leaves about 15% to 20% of the teens and women who depend on them virtually unprotected.


The protection that proper use of latex condoms provides against HIV transmission can best be determined from studies of couples in which one member is infected with HIV and the other is not. These are called “discordant couples.” In a European study of discordant couples, it was claimed that none of the uninfected partners became infected. In contrast, among the couples who used condoms inconsistently, 12 of the uninfected partners became infected. Consistent use means using a condom from start to finish with each act of intercourse and for every act of intercourse. As these studies indicate, condoms must be used consistently and correctly to provide protection against STDs, but even then there may be risks. The fact is, in studies with discordant couples, there were always some that got infected with HIV, even with condom use, which implies that the risk is still great. Christian teens and women should never knowingly enter discordant relationships, but should marry an uninfected partner who will remain faithful for a lifetime.


There continues to be questions about condom effectiveness by many people in the Christian community. The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) addresses some common concerns about condoms. Their information is based on findings from epidemiologic, laboratory, and clinical studies. They state that some persons have expressed concern about studies that report failure rates among couples using condoms for pregnancy prevention. These studies indicate that condom efficiency is related to incorrect or inconsistent use, with a small percentage of condom failure otherwise. The fact is that latex condoms are effective for pregnancy prevention, but only when they are used properly and every time. But the CDC states that research actually indicates that only 30 to 60 percent of men who claim to use condoms for prevention actually use them for every act of intercourse. But even couples who use condoms every time may not use them correctly all the time. Incorrect use can make the condom leak from the base or even break, leaving one or both partners unprotected against either an unplanned pregnancy or an STD, or possibly both.


The CDC also states that a commonly held misperception is that latex condoms contain tiny holes that allow passage of HIV. These holes are claimed by some researchers to be many times larger than the STD viruses. The CDC claims that although this may be true for natural membrane condoms like lambskin condoms, laboratory studies show that “intact” latex condoms provide a barrier to microorganisms, including HIV, as well as sperm. They state nothing about condoms that are “not intact” after a failure, and those who are left unprotected when this occurs. This area of concern is expressed by some who question the quality of latex condoms. Every latex condom manufactured in the United States is tested for defects before it is packaged, but several studies clearly show that condom breakage rates in this country are still somewhere around 2 percent, not counting the other breakage that is due to incorrect usage.


Using oil-based lubricants can weaken latex condoms, causing it to break and they can also be weakened by exposure to heat or sunlight or by age, and they can be torn by teeth or fingernails. For young unmarried teens, and some adult women, gambling with condoms, with even a 2% failure rate, is simply not enough protection from getting an STD or from getting pregnant out of wedlock. The FDA recently approved a female condom, but a study of this condom as a contraceptive indicates a failure rate of about 26 percent. Although laboratory studies indicate that the device serves as a barrier to some viruses, further research is necessary to determine its effectiveness in preventing transmission of HIV. Abstaining from sexual activity with a non-monogamous or infected partner is the most effective prevention strategy for Christian teens and women. Individuals who choose to be sexually active, should only engage in sexual activities with one uninfected monogamous lifetime partner. Having intercourse with only one uninfected and faithfully monogamous partner for life is the only 100% effective safe sex strategy to prevent STDs. Unplanned pregnancies do happen, even in faithful marriages, but even if it is not planned by human beings, it is planned by God.


In summary, sexually transmitted diseases, including HIV infection, are preventable, and individuals have several prevention strategies to choose from, some more effective that others. But the most responsible prevention strategy for Christian teens and women is God’s chosen plan for marriage. Having a mutually monogamous relationship with an uninfected partner for life, is the best plan for 100 % safe sex. Those Christian teens and women who practice abstinence as a prevention strategy will find it effective only if they remain totally abstinent, not having vaginal, anal, or oral sex until marrying their lifetime partner. Similarly, those who choose any of the other prevention strategies, including condom use, will find them effective only if used correctly and consistently 100% of the time, and even then, it still may be a gamble.



About mamaheartfilled

I am a mother of eight wonderfully challenging children and nine grandkids, of whom I am very proud. I am also a bi-vocational ordained evangelical minister, and a Christian Counselor. I received my B.S. degree in 2004, studying primarily in the areas of Psychology, with minors in Religion and English. I received my Masters Degree in 2009 in Psychological Counseling with an emphasis in Christian Counseling. I have endeavored to paraphrase the Bible, both Old and New Testaments, for the last ten years or so and am working on a final edit, now. It is my hope that it will be of some use in the great commission of Christ. My ministry is primarily geared toward victims of sexual and domestic violence, including victims of childhood sexual abuse, whether currently or in the past. Since I have personally experienced the healing hand of God in overcoming many of the life issues that Christians may face, I feel qualified and compelled to discuss them in a truthful and open manner, as God’s word tells us that “We shall know the truth and the truth shall set us free.” God has brought me through such diverse tribulations as sexual, physical, and mental abuse, being a victim of a drunk driving accident, spousal pornography addiction, adultery, divorce, remarriage, a very brief, though unjust, incarceration, and having experienced multiple miscarriages and various other trials. I have been asked to leave two Southern Baptist Churches, due to my being a female, ordained as a minister, and fired from a SBC sponsored Christian School (mostly white) for speaking out against racial prejudice in the Family of God. Through God’s merciful forgiveness of my own sins and inadequacies and God’s grace given to me to forgive those who have been a stumbling block to me, I have overcome many of these adversities. God’s word tells us that “All things work together for good to those who love the Lord and are called according to the purposes of God." Since I have this hope, I believe that God has blessed me with the ability to confront and relate these issues to the Christian community around the world. I hope to be able to use my personal experiences as a ministry of God’s grace and in the comforting of the people of God with the truth of God's mercy. I claim II Corinthians 1: 3 & 4 as my calling, which states: “Blessed be God, the Origin of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Origin of mercies, and the God of comfort; who comforts us in all our troubles, that we may be able to comfort those who are in trouble, by the comfort we ourselves have been given by God.” As I have received the gift of God’s healing, I hope to be able to bring the peace beyond understanding to others with the message of God’s mercy and grace. My love for the Sovereign Lord of my life, Jesus Christ, along with my passion for writing has drawn me to explore these commonly experienced crisis issues from the perspective of my own experience in the hope that I may bring an empathetic and compassionate insight to God’s people. I am now a published author and have several books in publication, including my autobiography, "A Little Redneck Theology." The views expressed in my writings are strictly my own insights, acquired from personal experience and diligent study of the related topics and God’s word concerning them. Though I am an ordained minister, my views should not be considered authoritative. I believe that the Christian community’s ultimate authority is the guidance of the human heart by the Holy Spirit and the Word of God.
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