Child Goes to Sleepover at Friend’s House and Comes Home Pregnant

Michael Lacy

Michael Lacy’s daughter had a sleep over and invited a friend, who went home from the ordeal pregnant with Lacy’s baby.  He claims he had taken medications and that he thought it was his wife the whole time. A West Virginia TV station said 36-year-old Lacy told police he’d taken Lortab and Xanax the night of the sleepover. He said he woke up to someone kissing his neck, and figuring it was his wife, he kissed back. He said he didn’t remember anything else because he had taken all those painkillers. The 11 year old girl, a virgin at the time, was discovered to be pregnant and Lacy faced sexual assault charges.

Young girls like this are often coerced or forced into unwanted sex that doesn’t reflect their emotional age and physical immaturity.  They are commonly victimized by men much older than they are. Even girls who are pre-menstrual can become pregnant, which compounds the tragedy of the rape for one so young.

Parents, your children aren’t safe at a sleepover where an adult male  is present, especially one using drugs.  There needs to be at least one or two unrelated adults present in addition to the parents for supervision purposes.  There is no mention of where Lacy’s wife was during the rape, so apparently there was little supervision by her.   It is the parents responsibility to keep their children safe and if we let our children go to sleepovers at all, there needs to be adequate supervision.  Often, you can’t trust a mother to protect children from her spouse as many times they are emotionally abused themselves and passively involved in the abuse, whether they know what happened and don’t tell anyone, or they know what happened and participated themselves.

Britain announced its first official “youngest mother” was a girl the same age as this one – 11.

The world’s youngest mother ever was a 5-year-old Peruvian girl.


About mamaheartfilled

I am a mother of eight wonderfully challenging children and nine grandkids, of whom I am very proud. I am also a bi-vocational ordained evangelical minister, and a Christian Counselor. I received my B.S. degree in 2004, studying primarily in the areas of Psychology, with minors in Religion and English. I received my Masters Degree in 2009 in Psychological Counseling with an emphasis in Christian Counseling. I have endeavored to paraphrase the Bible, both Old and New Testaments, for the last ten years or so and am working on a final edit, now. It is my hope that it will be of some use in the great commission of Christ. My ministry is primarily geared toward victims of sexual and domestic violence, including victims of childhood sexual abuse, whether currently or in the past. Since I have personally experienced the healing hand of God in overcoming many of the life issues that Christians may face, I feel qualified and compelled to discuss them in a truthful and open manner, as God’s word tells us that “We shall know the truth and the truth shall set us free.” God has brought me through such diverse tribulations as sexual, physical, and mental abuse, being a victim of a drunk driving accident, spousal pornography addiction, adultery, divorce, remarriage, a very brief, though unjust, incarceration, and having experienced multiple miscarriages and various other trials. I have been asked to leave two Southern Baptist Churches, due to my being a female, ordained as a minister, and fired from a SBC sponsored Christian School (mostly white) for speaking out against racial prejudice in the Family of God. Through God’s merciful forgiveness of my own sins and inadequacies and God’s grace given to me to forgive those who have been a stumbling block to me, I have overcome many of these adversities. God’s word tells us that “All things work together for good to those who love the Lord and are called according to the purposes of God." Since I have this hope, I believe that God has blessed me with the ability to confront and relate these issues to the Christian community around the world. I hope to be able to use my personal experiences as a ministry of God’s grace and in the comforting of the people of God with the truth of God's mercy. I claim II Corinthians 1: 3 & 4 as my calling, which states: “Blessed be God, the Origin of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Origin of mercies, and the God of comfort; who comforts us in all our troubles, that we may be able to comfort those who are in trouble, by the comfort we ourselves have been given by God.” As I have received the gift of God’s healing, I hope to be able to bring the peace beyond understanding to others with the message of God’s mercy and grace. My love for the Sovereign Lord of my life, Jesus Christ, along with my passion for writing has drawn me to explore these commonly experienced crisis issues from the perspective of my own experience in the hope that I may bring an empathetic and compassionate insight to God’s people. I am now a published author and have several books in publication, including my autobiography, "A Little Redneck Theology." The views expressed in my writings are strictly my own insights, acquired from personal experience and diligent study of the related topics and God’s word concerning them. Though I am an ordained minister, my views should not be considered authoritative. I believe that the Christian community’s ultimate authority is the guidance of the human heart by the Holy Spirit and the Word of God.
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